With prior preparation and a little cunning, there’s no need for parents to shy away from eating out in public.
With their ability to cover everything in food, smash every available object within reach, and make enough noise to set off car alarms, children don’t immediately seem the ideal creatures to take to a restaurant. But, with prior preparation and a little cunning, there’s no need for parents to shy away from eating out in public.
Children don’t always like surprises, so make sure you prepare
your child for their meal out. Explain to them how a restaurant works, what they might eat, and how the food is prepared and served. Try and build an image that is both accurate and appealing. Ask your child whether going out to eat is something they might like to do – having their informed consent is half the battle.
Eating out at 8pm isn’t really an option when children are involved. As sleep-time approaches, tempers fray and behaviour can become a little frenzied – a combination that doesn’t make for a comfortable dining experience.
Instead, time meals out to coincide with children’s established eating times. It might feel a little unnatural to dine at 5pm, but if that’s what keeps the kids happy, then that’s what has to happen. Booking meals at off-peak times also ensures that families don’t get glared at by other diners who might be seeking quiet intimacy.
By their nature, restaurants involve periods of waiting. Children, by their nature, don’t like waiting. Your job as a parent is to ensure your children don’t get bored. Bringing a sack full of toys isn’t really appropriate, but having a book or simple game handy can work wonders for short-term entertainment.
Choosing a restaurant
It should go without saying that choosing an established family-friendly restaurant is a good idea. While it might be appealing to instruct the kids in the ways of fine dining, the minute a tantrum starts brewing, the experience can quickly become nightmarish.
will be kitted out with useful things like colouring books and games to play while kids wait for their meal. The staff will be used to dealing with bored/tired/hungry kids and the meals will be designed to appeal to younger palettes.
The downside of these places is that they can feel a bit like a free-for-all, with kids allowed to run riot. As a compromise, try and find restaurants that are welcoming to kids, but not designed especially with kids in mind. Ideas include Wagamama, Pizza Express, Belgo’s and Carluccio’s – try and find restaurant coupons to take the sting out of the price. As a general rule, family-run Italian restaurants can also be a good option – call in advance and ask whether they cater for children. Staying sane
While it’s good to introduce children to the experience of eating out, it’s equally important that parents enjoy themselves. Sometimes, the only way to do this is to leave the kids at home (preferably with a babysitter) and indulge in an intimate meal just for two. If price is an issue, seek out some guilt-reducing restaurant coupons