Today is an example of both. My matric son is allowed to wear his matric jacket everyday, but realized on the way to school that he needs his blazer as they have a cricket match this pm. I have to fetch the others at 1.30 so said I would bring it then. He put a reminder on my phone for such, with a x and a thanks! Feel rewarded!
Used and abused for lifting however, as I have a semi flexible timetable, so get roped in for lifts here and there and everywhere by my 15 year old daughter for her and her friends , but I really don’t mind – they are growing up so quickly I cant bear it!!