The bang bang birthday club
Who is signing on for army birthday parties?
I have two sons. I understand the male need to do donkey bites and see who can push the other onto the floor while shouting “What, Bru?”
I have been caught in the damp crossfire of running water battles, and stumbled over teddy bears engaged in a wrestling match. I no longer fantasise that I will raise my sons with a more evolved sense of manhood and a heightened awareness of their role as pacifists in a violent world.
So it should have come as no surprise to me to receive a press release touting the fun to be had at an Army-themed birthday party.
But yet, it jars.
Yes, the army no doubt plays an important role in maintaining our freedom as a democracy and so forth. But I don’t want to see 6-year-olds crawling under a camo net or taking part in an activity called Yes Sir! Drill Sergeant! Sir! (I did not make that up, it is genuinely on offer.)
For once I am not banging on about gender roles
. It just depresses me that we would think this is a great and fun way for a child to remember his (or her?) special day.
I suggest we trawl our imaginations for more peaceful party themes, in which boys and girls may still pour water on each other and crawl in mud. How about a planting party, which involves digging muddy trenches and planting greenery in them? Or clay parties where everyone works together on a big piece of art and then has to be hosed down afterwards?
I am truly intrigued to know what kind of person would look at the long list of parties offered by the party planners and decide that “Army” would hit the spot.
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.Do you think army is a great theme for a kids’ party? Why on earth?