Egg donation – a gift of life
What would you do if you found out that your eggs were no longer viable and you couldn’t conceive a baby? Would you ‘adopt’ an egg from a donor? These days, it’s a very real way to have a baby.

Failed fertility treatment

“I remember when my doctor first told me how some women use other women’s eggs to fall pregnant. I thought, ‘Not me. I wouldn’t do that.’ But that was before my year of failed fertility treatments, which left me feeling depressed and hopeless,” says Amanda Cloete (names has been changed).

Amanda always knew she would want children but, after getting married and divorced, she met her second husband when she was already 37.

“Luckily, he was as keen to have children as I was so we started trying immediately,” says Amanda. After 10 months with no pregnancy, they decided to visit a fertility clinic.

“I was told that although my husband’s sperm was fine, I wasn’t ovulating properly. I remember feeling numb.”

What followed was a year of unsuccessful fertility treatments, including one miscarriage. Amanda recalls, “It was after the miscarriage and finding out that my sister was pregnant with her second child and listening to my doctor kindly telling me that because I was nearing 40 the quality of my eggs wasn’t great, I began to look at the only other available option – egg donation.”

Going the egg donation route

It wasn’t an easy decision. “My husband and I spent hours talking about it. Although adoption was a possibility, I really wanted the experience of being pregnant and giving birth. I also felt guilty about not being able to give my husband his own biological child, although he reassured me he would support whatever decision I made. We read everything we could find over the Net and also spoke to friends and family. Six months later, after much soul searching, we decided to give it a go.”

Choosing an egg donor

The first step was choosing an egg donor. “There really weren’t that many choices because very few women donate eggs. But there was one donor who was a good match for me physically. I liked the look of her baby picture and she seemed to have a good medical record. Once we finally decided on the donor, I finally started feeling excited again. We were going to have a baby!”

Beginning the process

What followed was a series of medical procedures, which included the doctors at the clinic obtaining eggs from the donor. Although a number of eggs were extracted and fertilised with Amanda’s husband’s sperm, only two embryos were inserted into Amanda’s uterus. The rest were frozen for possible future use.

Amanda remembers the day of the insertion: “My husband and I were like two schoolchildren, nervous and giggly. But the procedure was almost a non-event that happened very quickly on the gynae examination table. I felt like I was just going in for a pap smear.” A speculum was inserted vaginally and the embryos deposited into Amanda’s uterus. Amanda was told to wait 2 weeks before doing a pregnancy test.

The pregnancy test

“After so many failures, you build a protective resistance to thinking you’ll ever be pregnant,” says Amanda. “I almost didn’t want to take the pregnancy test but my husband urged me to... and I was pregnant! I couldn’t believe it had been that easy.

“Egg donation has a 20% chance of producing twins because of the number of embryos put back, and I had mixed feelings about that. But when I went back to the clinic I was pregnant with one baby.”

After the pregnancy

Amanda’s daughter is now 18 months old. “Before she was born, I worried that I wouldn’t feel like she was my child because she wasn’t biologically related to me. But now I can’t imagine loving or cherishing anyone more. I do think about the donor from time to time but mostly I feel that she must be an amazing woman for giving us this extraordinary gift of life.”

Why choose egg donation

Egg donation is an option that couples decide on after other treatments, like IVF, have been unsuccessful, usually because the woman’s eggs are not viable. Some women have a low supply of eggs or eggs of a poor quality that do not respond to IVF.

Other women may have had their ovaries removed surgically or undergone chemotherapy, which leads to non-functioning of the ovaries. Like Amanda, many women are starting families later in lifewhen they are no longer so fertile.

Egg donation in South Africa

Egg donation is relatively new in South Africa; the first baby conceived with a donated egg was born in the mid-80s. Since then, the numbers of people using this form of fertility treatment has increased but there are no statistics on the numbers of successful pregnancies.

Dr Klaus Wiswedel, of the Cape Fertility Clinic in Cape Town, says, “We have about 120 pregnancies per year with this method.” These pregnancies are made up of South Africans and couple from the US and UK who come to South Africa for treatment because of high costs and long waiting lists for donors back home.

Success rate

The success rate with egg donation is high. “There is a 60-70% chance with each attempt – considerably higher than many other forms of fertility treatment – because the in-vitro fertilisation [fertilisation outside the body] depends on the age of the egg donor and not the recipient of the egg,” says Dr Wiswedel. Each attempt costs around R30 000, excluding agency costs and medical costs for the donor.

Finding an egg donor

There are a number of agencies in South Africa that have egg donors registered with them. EggdonationSouthAfrica, one of the largest, works with most of the fertility clinics in South Africa, Nairobi and the UK.

These agencies specialise in recruiting and screening donors. Founder member of EggdonationSouthAfrica Mbali Mkhize says, “I started the agency after I underwent my own fertility treatment. Although I was relatively fortunate in that I could produce my own eggs, I met wonderful women whose only option was to find a suitable egg donor. I found out that few donors are available and waiting lists are long.”

"Through this agency, I can give hope to these women. Egg donation is relatively new in South Africa but we have a considerable number of available donors of all population groups on our books.”

Who are the donors

Mbali says that most of the donors are young university-educated women aged between 20 and 32. “Our donors are women who’ve heard about us from word-of-mouth or who’ve stumbled across our site. We take the screening of our donors very seriously. They undergo a detailed medical examination and blood test to screen for HIV and hepatitis, as well as having a psychological assessment.”

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Donors are not paid for their eggs but are compensated for their time and inconvenience, usually around R5000 per cycle. All the eggs that are harvested with one cycle, usually between 8 and 15, are used for one couple and they are given the option of freezing embryos for later use.

How many times a donor can donate

A donor can donate her eggs 5 times, which limits the number of babies borne to one donor. Available information on the egg donors includes their physical appearance, likes, dislikes and academic achievements, as well as a baby picture. No identifying information, such as name or adult picture, is given to ensure donor anonymity.

Implications for the child

There has been much research on the impact of being a donor-conceived child. The good news is that studies have shown that donor-conceived children do as well emotionally as naturally conceived children. However, a study released in July 2008 showed that donor-conceived children fair better if they are told when they are young that they were conceived this way. The study also showed that most children experience a desire to learn more about the donor and, in some cases, even meet the donor.

In South Africa, egg donors are all anonymous so meeting the donor is not a possibility. In the future, there might be the option of identity-release egg donors, where the donor makes herself known to the child at the child’s request once he or she turns 18.

Presently, people wanting to go this route can explore the possibility of using egg donors from agencies in the United States. Of course, this is extremely costly, lengthy and complicated but some parents choose this option to give their child the choice of having some kind of contact in later life with their biological parent.

Who to contact in SA

Reputable clinics offering egg-donation treatment:

Tygerberg Fertility at Life Vincent Pallotti, Cape Town

Sister Fourie Tel 021 531 6999
Website Website

The Cape Fertility Clinic, Claremont

Tel 021 674 2088

Gynomed Clinic, Johannesburg, Roodeport

Tel 011 796 1100

For egg donors contact:

Egg Donation South Africa, Cape Town city centre

Tel 021 558 0737

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