The dangers of ‘Project X’ parties
Open parties have become a trend; is your teen risk-proof?
A rash of ‘Project X’ parties has raised parent’s concerns-
Based on the US movie of the same name, kids organise massive house parties
with open invitations on Facebook and Twitter. In Holland, a 16-year-old forgot
to make her online party invitation private, prompting 20 000 people to
reply, forcing riot police to assemble to prevent chaos, according to News24. As many as 4000 kids have turned up for similar
parties, where the use of alcohol and drugs is openly encouraged.
Cops and hospitals
Project X-styled parties have been happening in Durban, and, unlike
the Dutch party which was shut down by riot police, local cops are insisting
they don’t have the time or manpower to investigate every single teen party,
reports TimesLive. One party resulted in three girls being admitted to
hospital, while another was shut down by parents who had caught wind of it.
In one case in the US, a group of teens who had broken into
an empty house to throw a party were later caught after the owner of the house
came across photos of the party on Facebook, including images of one kid
throwing up, and others using a funnel to smoke, according to HuffPost.
In Cape Town, schools are finding that the internet is
becoming a place where teens overshare the evidence of the kinds of activities
that previously would have just become part of their oral histories- Facebook
pages and blogs are being used as evidence in internal disciplinary hearings
regarding alcohol consumption at house parties and online bullying.
If your teen is online, consider the following in order to
prevent your child from getting caught up in potentially dangerous (possibly
even criminal) parties:
- Be friends with them on Facebook, and insist that you are
able to see all of their posts- some teens set their privacy settings so that
you are unable to see their pictures, for example.
- Get to know their friends and their friend’s parents and
find out their views on alcohol consumption and open house parties.
- Explain to your child that the context of pictures taken at
parties isn’t always clear when they are put online, and that what may have
been innocent at the time could incriminate them as being involved in something
- Set ground rules for parties, such as the presence of an
adult, no alcohol and no drugs, as well as a curfew time by which they must
either be home or picked up.
- Make sure that your teen knows not to drink anything which
is handed to them by a stranger, especially in an open container which may
contain narcotics or a date-rape substance. This could be part of a longer
conversation about the risks of taking drugs which may be contaminated with
other substances (or any drugs, for that matter), as well as the dangers of
- Contact your neighbourhood watch- they will often be aware
of parties being planned or underway in the area.
Your teens may not understand that online photos or videos of
them partying could get them into trouble, perhaps even coming back to haunt
them years later when applying to tertiary institutions or for jobs. In
addition, compromising pictures may even be used to bully your teens or extort
money in exchange for keeping them offline.
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