SAPS advises parents to teach your child these 5 rules:
- Never get into a car with someone you do not know.
- Do not accept gifts from a person you do not know.
- Never open your front door to people you do not know.
- Tell an adult where you are going and when you will return.
- Your body is PRIVATE, you have the right to say NO!
Further steps to take:
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Make sure your children are aware of their neighbourhood
- Set geographical boundaries past which they are not allowed to roam.
- Teach them to take the same route to places they regularly visit, for instance the park, or a local shop.
- Make sure they know all the safe havens in the neighbourhood: the local police station or clinic.
Set boundaries
- Make it a rule that your children are not allowed to go anywhere without asking permission from you first.
- Ask them to be back at a certain time.
- Make sure you know their friends and have up-to-date contact details for them.
Empower your child
- Teach your child their own name and address, as well as your name and telephone number.
- Teach them about the 'buddy system' and insist that they do not venture out without at least one friend accompanying them.
- Teach them to trust their instincts and to say 'no' if they feel uncomfortable in a situation.
- Practise safety skills with your child and rehearse what they should do in a dangerous situation. That way the behaviour becomes second nature to them.
- Work out a family safe word, and tell your child that they should only accompany unknown adults who can give them the correct safe word.
Empower yourself
- In the event that a child goes missing, do not delay in reporting it to the police.
- The most recent photograph of the child will assist the search or investigation, and to this end SAPS recommends that you keep updated pictures of your children.
- Know where their medical records are located and consider keeping DNA samples on hand.
- The police will expect the parent or guardian to provide a clear description of what the child was wearing at the time of disappearance and any distinctive features or marks on the child need to be mentioned to the police.