Your feelings are completely natural, and you are right about needing ‘alone time’. Every couple needs to spend quality time with each other to re-connect and build the intimacy between them. I
would recommend that you try to set time aside for each other at least once a week. A recent survey found that the happiest children come from parents who have “alone” time at least three times a month.
Remember, children are very intuitive, and your daughter will be happier if you and your husband have a fulfilling and intimate relationship. If you worry about her safety, as friends for
recommendations of good baby sitters, or leave your daughter with a trustworthy family member.